Unplug from Your Crazy Life, Reconnect with Yourself,
and Find Brotherhood
This is a brotherhood for men who have won the game of external success -
and now want to create the fulfillment to match.
Unplug from Your Crazy Life,
Reconnect with Yourself,
and Find Brotherhood
This is a brotherhood for men who have won the game of external success - and now want to create the fulfillment to match.
What is WYLDMEN
If you’re an executive, entrepreneur or other man building things in the world - and you find yourself feeling disconnected from your purpose and what’s really important to you in the motions of modern life...
....WYLDMEN is about living a life of confidence and fulfillment as a man in the modern world - without being overwhelmed, distracted, or burnt out. It’s about showing up as the man your family, your business and your soul is yearning to be.
Delivered via an intensive 3-day in-person experience paired with virtual accountability and coaching, this is for men who want to make meaningful, lasting change in their bodies, their relationships, and their purpose on the planet.
What is WYLDMEN?
If you’re an executive, entrepreneur or other man building things in the world - and you find yourself feeling disconnected from what’s really important to you in the motions of modern life...
....WYLDMEN is about living a life of confidence and fulfillment as a man in the modern world - without being overwhelmed, distracted, or burnt out. It’s about showing up as the man your family, your business and your soul is yearning to be.
Delivered via an intensive 3-day in-person experience paired with virtual accountability and coaching, this is for men who want to make meaningful, lasting change in their bodies, their relationships, and their purpose on the planet.
100+ Men PARTICIPATED Since 2022
"histrionic to say...but it changed my life"
"I feel incredibly strong, I feel healthy, I'm eating better, I'm sleeping better, I'm thinking about things in a more focused way" - John, Director
LOST 30 lbs 6 months after his retreat
"I did not expect to have the bonding experience that I had and that took it to a next level" - Rob, Executive, Dad, Husband
"I look forward to doing it again"
"Connected me with myself and my inner male...we left as brothers. Would recommend it to men who work a ton and want to reconnect with themselves." - Chris, Executive
"this has been an amazing experience"
"My biggest takeaway is a formidable sense of peace, centeredness, joy, and ecstasy - something I will carry with me for the rest of my life" - J-L, Professor
About the Facilitator
Thomas Fairman, MQP, CPT, FMS was a Global Sales Engineering Manager at Tigo Energy in Silicon Valley (now listed as TYGO) before he become a personal trainer and lifestyle coach. After coaching hundreds of clients to lose hundreds of pounds, Thomas found that the most impactful work he could do was with men who've achieved a level of outward success - but long for deeper meaning in their day-to-day lives, and with other men.
Thomas is a certified Qigong Practitioner, Personal Trainer, Functional Movement Specialist and Nutrition Coach. He has also coached over 1000 people in 8 years of training with Landmark Worldwide, one of the most established personal development companies in the world. By blending these modalities, he has created a brotherhood of men like no other. He lives in Eugene, Oregon with his wife, daughter, son, cat, and dog. (RIP Harrison “Mr. Buddy” Fairman)
words from the brotherhood
WHAT MEN ARE SAYING
About the Facilitator
Thomas Fairman, MQP, CPT, FMS was a Global Sales Engineering Manager at Tigo Energy in Silicon Valley (now listed as TYGO) before he become a personal trainer and lifestyle coach. After coaching hundreds of clients to lose hundreds of pounds, Thomas found that the most impactful work he could do was with men who've achieved a level of outward success - but long for deeper meaning in their day-to-day lives, and with other men.
Thomas is a certified Qigong Practitioner, Personal Trainer, Functional Movement Specialist and Nutrition Coach. He has also coached over 1000 people in 8 years of training with Landmark Worldwide, one of the most established personal development companies in the world. By blending these modalities, he has created a brotherhood of men like no other. He lives in Eugene, Oregon with his wife, daughter, son, cat, and dog. (RIP Harrison “Mr. Buddy” Fairman)
words from the brotherhood
WHAT MEN ARE SAYING
Upcoming Dates
May 28–May 31 | North Carolina (1 spot left)
July 16–19 | Oregon
NOTE: registration closes 4 weeks prior to each retreat.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this for?
A WYLDMEN's Retreat could be for you if...
• You are a leader- you lead in business, you lead a family, or another group in some other way - but lack a deeper sense of fulfillment.
• You feel constant stress and find yourself just going through the motions of life.
• You find yourself isolated after being hyper-focused on advancing your personal and professional goals.
This is NOT for you if...
• You are just looking for a nice weekend away from your life and are unprepared to do work outside the weekend.
• You are attached to your identity - be it political, religious, sexual or otherwise - and only willing to surround yourself with men who share the same identity.
• You are on a generalized "personal growth journey" and don't have a compelling reason for coming as an individual at this specific point in your life.
What makes this different from other men's retreats?
First of all - this is not just a weekend. It's a 12-week process with 6 weeks of prep, and 6 weeks of integration. So you're not coming just for a retreat high; you will walk out significantly changed by the experience.
Second - This is an intensive unplugging from the world you've known, so you can get back in touch with yourself. The weekend includes extended periods on airplane mode in beautiful natural surrounds. We also practice fasting. You will be removed from the usual stimuli of your life so you can get in touch with parts of you that you might ignore day-to-day
Third - we will address conversations that most men never have, so that you can access confidence in yourself you've never experienced before. Part of these conversations involve nudity: we have conversations about body image, about sex, about how we manage emotions as men.
When you can be confident in all parts of yourself, without hiding any of it - that's where true confidence emerges from.
What does the weekend include?
6 weeks of (virtual) prep, 3 days in-person, and 6 weeks of (virtual) integration.
The in-person experience integrates physical training (qigong, strength training, nature immersion, breathwork), relationship training (the art of sharing, listening, and accountability), and purpose work (10-Year vision and legacy, 1 year plan, 90-day habits)
Meals, lodging, and all activities are included in the weekend, airplane tickets are not covered. You'll be disconnected from the world, out in nature on airplane mode, with no more than 7 other men in a private, distraction-free environment.
Will this help me get in better shape?
Yes. Part of this work is physical training, and the in-person experience WILL physically challenge you. Be prepared to train for 6 weeks prior to your event at minimum, we'll give you a week-by-week plan on how to do this.
How many men attend each retreat?
Only 8 spots per retreat.
No one slips through the cracks. Everyone shares. Everyone does their work and gets supported wherever they are at.
Is this like therapy?
No. While elements of this experience touch on mental health - this is a holistic health reset - a modern rite of passage for men who are leaders in their life, and want to not lose who they are underneath what their leadership asks of them.
What does it cost?
Packages range from the 4- to 5-figures, and include both the in-person experience plus support and accountability before and afterward.
This is not for everyone, but for men operating at a high level in the game of life who understand that investing in themselves pays itself back. For more details, request the brochure via this page.
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