Unplug from Your Crazy Life, Reconnect with Yourself,
and Find Brotherhood
This is a brotherhood for men who have won the game of external success -
and now want to create the fulfillment to match.
Unplug from Your Crazy Life,
Reconnect with Yourself,
and Find Brotherhood
This is a brotherhood for men who have won the game of external success - and now want to create the fulfillment to match.
What is WYLDMEN
If you’re an executive, entrepreneur or other man building things in the world - and you find yourself feeling disconnected from your purpose and what’s really important to you in the motions of modern life...
....WYLDMEN is about living a life of confidence and fulfillment as a man in the modern world - without being overwhelmed, distracted, or burnt out. It’s about showing up as the man your family, your business and your soul is yearning to be.
Delivered via an intensive 3-day in-person experience paired with virtual accountability and coaching, this is for men who want to make meaningful, lasting change in their bodies, their relationships, and their purpose on the planet.
What is WYLDMEN?
If you’re an executive, entrepreneur or other man building things in the world - and you find yourself feeling disconnected from what’s really important to you in the motions of modern life...
....WYLDMEN is about living a life of confidence and fulfillment as a man in the modern world - without being overwhelmed, distracted, or burnt out. It’s about showing up as the man your family, your business and your soul is yearning to be.
Delivered via an intensive 3-day in-person experience paired with virtual accountability and coaching, this is for men who want to make meaningful, lasting change in their bodies, their relationships, and their purpose on the planet.
100+ Men PARTICIPATED Since 2022
"histrionic to say...but it changed my life"
"I feel incredibly strong, I feel healthy, I'm eating better, I'm sleeping better, I'm thinking about things in a more focused way" - John, Director
LOST 30 lbs 6 months after his retreat
"I did not expect to have the bonding experience that I had and that took it to a next level" - Rob, Executive, Dad, Husband
"I look forward to doing it again"
"Connected me with myself and my inner male...we left as brothers. Would recommend it to men who work a ton and want to reconnect with themselves." - Chris, Executive
"this has been an amazing experience"
"My biggest takeaway is a formidable sense of peace, centeredness, joy, and ecstasy - something I will carry with me for the rest of my life" - J-L, Professor
About the Facilitator
Thomas Fairman, MQP, CPT, FMS was a Global Sales Engineering Manager at Tigo Energy in Silicon Valley (now listed as TYGO) before he become a personal trainer and lifestyle coach. After coaching hundreds of clients to lose hundreds of pounds, Thomas found that the most impactful work he could do was with men who've achieved a level of outward success - but long for deeper meaning in their day-to-day lives, and with other men.
Thomas is a certified Qigong Practitioner, Personal Trainer, Functional Movement Specialist and Nutrition Coach. He has also coached over 1000 people in 8 years of training with Landmark Worldwide, one of the most established personal development companies in the world. By blending these modalities, he has created a brotherhood of men like no other. He lives in Eugene, Oregon with his wife, daughter, son, cat, and dog. (RIP Harrison “Mr. Buddy” Fairman)
words from the brotherhood
WHAT MEN ARE SAYING
About the Facilitator
Thomas Fairman, MQP, CPT, FMS was a Global Sales Engineering Manager at Tigo Energy in Silicon Valley (now listed as TYGO) before he become a personal trainer and lifestyle coach. After coaching hundreds of clients to lose hundreds of pounds, Thomas found that the most impactful work he could do was with men who've achieved a level of outward success - but long for deeper meaning in their day-to-day lives, and with other men.
Thomas is a certified Qigong Practitioner, Personal Trainer, Functional Movement Specialist and Nutrition Coach. He has also coached over 1000 people in 8 years of training with Landmark Worldwide, one of the most established personal development companies in the world. By blending these modalities, he has created a brotherhood of men like no other. He lives in Eugene, Oregon with his wife, daughter, son, cat, and dog. (RIP Harrison “Mr. Buddy” Fairman)
words from the brotherhood
WHAT MEN ARE SAYING
Upcoming Dates
March 19–22 | Oregon
April 9–12 | Oregon
April 30–May 3 | Oregon
May 28–May 31 | North Carolina
NOTE: registration closes 4 weeks prior to each retreat.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this for?
This is not for men who:
• Are looking for a quick fix or a weekend getaway
• Are interested in a casual naturist event
• Aren't ready to invest 3 days in themselves on airplane mode to go deep
The WYLD Retreat is for men who:
• Have achieved a level of success - a business, a career, a family - but lack a deeper sense of fulfillment
• Are looking for brothers on a shared path of growth
• Find themselves at a transition point in life, and want to move powerfully through it
What does the weekend include?
Everything except your plane ticket.
The in-person experience integrates physical training (qigong, strength training, nature immersion, breathwork led by Thomas), relationship training (the art of sharing, listening, and accountability), and purpose work (10-Year vision and legacy, 1 year plan, 90-day habits)
Meals, lodging, and all activities are included in accommodations of rustic luxury. You'll be disconnected from the world, out in nature on airplane mode, with no more than 7 other men in a private, distraction-free environment.
Do I need to be in great shape?
No. The physical practices are scalable to your current capacity. Whether you're dealing with injuries, high stress, or haven't trained consistently in years - we meet you where you are and help you build from there.
That said - the in-person experience WILL physically challenge you, and you should be prepared to train for it. (guidance included)
How many men attend each retreat?
Only 8 spots per retreat. No one slips through the cracks. Everyone shares. Everyone does their work and gets supported wherever they are at.
I heard there's nudity on these retreats - explain.
Modern culture encourages men to hide and obscure any aspect of themselves which might be viewed as weak. This allows some of the greatest vices that men have to fester rather than be dealt with. It also prevents growth in whatever those "weak" areas might be.
We also have a culture where the naked bodies that most men see are in porn, movies, and TV shows. This creates an unrealistic expectation of what our bodies should look like and may partially explain a rise in male body dysmorphia that wasn't previously present in centuries past when nudity wasn't so tied to sexuality.
Drawing from Japanese culture, Hadaka No Tsukiai is a Japanese phrase that means "naked relationships" or "relationships without concealment". This is the spirit of the brotherhood we are building. A space where men are seen as all that they are, and held accountable without the social armor that usually confines them into certain roles - no titles, no status symbols - this is a brotherhood of men being authentically who they are underneath their trappings.
Is this therapy?
No. This is an initiatory experience and a brotherhood - a modern rite of passage for men who are crossing threshold in their life and want to tap into their own wisdom by unplugging from their usual environment, and then be held accountable to bring that wisdom back into their own day-to-day life.
What happens after the retreat?
Your retreat is just the beginning. The real work happens in how you apply what you've learned to your daily life. Men who attend are provided support for weeks after their in-person experience to create lasting results.
What does it cost?
Packages range from the 4- to 5-figures, and include both the in-person experience plus support and accountability before and afterward. This is not for everyone, but for men operating at a high level in the game of life who understand that investing in themselves pays itself back. For more details, request the brochure via this page.
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